forget strip clubs and bar scenes

I'm sitting here at my desk, trying to come up with more practical reasons to book a boudoir shoot. A few imaginary arguements come to mind: "I would feel better with a friend there." "It's probably expensive." "It would have to be for a special ocassion."

Then it hits me so hard I almost slam down my coffee mug: Boudoir Bachelorette Parties!! I don't know about you ladies, but I was extremely nervous when my bachelorette party wsa being planned. Bar-hopping isn't really my scene and I would be so bashful at a strip club my face would likely be the color of a cherry. But what can a group of ladies do in a private space that doesn't involve a lot of public attention, and still be fun enough to remember forever? The answer to those questions (as well as the imaginary arguements) is simple: a Boudoir Bachelorette.

This just might be the most exciting thing ever. Instead of going out and making a spectacle in public, you can easily celebrate the sexiness of an upcoming marriage in your own, comfortable space. The members of the bridal party can easily coordinate their negligee, with the bride of course being center of attention. We can take group shots, if everyone is comfortbale, and it can be a wonderful addition to any wedding album. But of course, each bridesmaid would get her own private mini-shoot, too! Throw in some champagne, strawberries or chocolate, and you're set up for a veritable good time. It's a great way for the bride to show her appreciation for everything her best girls have done! And, it can be done during the day, so it's an option for the start of a wild night or an alternative if nights aren't an option! Now, here's a good spot for one of those imaginary arguements I mentioned earlier: "I don't feel comfortable being naked in front of the others." And to that I say: Here's the thing. Boudoir doesn't mean Naked. You can be just as sexy in a bathrobe, loose t shirt or nightgown. Sometimes, leaving more to the imagination than eye can be even sexier than nudity anyway. That's the part where you have to trust your photographer (me!) to know how to accentuate all that sexiness. Another point: "Who would I even give these to?"

YOU, honey! I realize that not every member of a bridal party is going to be a spouse or even a significant other. And even if they are, sometimes they may feel silly giving photos of this kind to their loved one. But my response to them is this: Boudoir shouldn't ever be all about someone else anyway. The photos are YOURS, they're for YOU. Pull them out when you're having a bad day to remind yourself how powerful you are. Show them off when you're 80 to prove what a dish you were. Or keep them secret forever, so long as they're for YOU. I can just see it now: getting adorable negligee, pampered and fussed over with hair and makeup. Tell stories, make jokes and memories while pausing every so often to raise a glass of bubbly. And not one badly mixed drink or sweaty crotch shoved in your face? A definite plus. I would love to do Bachelorette shoots! Gah, I wish I knew someone getting married. Please, feel free to get a hold of me. Prices are cheaper when you split them multiple ways. photo credits to their owners: I'll replace them soon with my own!